Always end up in the same type of relationships? Notice a pattern in all your friends?
You only seek what you do not have...
Some of you might be the 'mother' of your group
For some, everyone you know comes to you to talk and tell you about their problems but seldom do people ask you how you are
Practical people seek emotional partners and vice versa
The key lies in elements....
Astrologically, the element your chart lacks most, that's the element you try to fill in your life. People with weak fire are usually friends with fiery people, those with weak water seek sensitive and nurturing partners... Try identifying your role in majority of your relationships and you'll identify the dominant element in your chart.
Knowing that will help you form a basic life dos and don'ts list

Elements dictate

1. What kind of food you should eat to stay healthy
2. What kind of life partner is best suited for you
3. What should be some necessary features of your job eg. sitting vs physical time, online or offline, traveling or stationary etc for maximum job satisfaction
4. Whether you should start a business or not
5. What are your lucky colors, your lucky deities, your lucky numbers
6. What should be your general habits.. How would you maximize your happiness

Fire Element

You're the detective of the group. You know everything, even if you don't talk to everyone. It's in your nature to know. I'm not saying you gossip, but every news reaches you somehow. You're curious about everything big and small. You love to talk... If someone could just pay you to talk all the time, you'd be richer than Bezos today. You have theories about everything and everyone, and most of the time, they're right. You're the one who always says I told you so. You're warm, you're intelligent, you're bubbly. You're air.
Air elements make the best match for water elements. You love to talk, they love to listen. Avoid fire elements as they might sometimes feel dominated by you. Not your fault, it's just hard for them to be the centre of attraction with you around.
Air elements should try their hand at social media management, public relations, social work, law and research. You have excellent communication and an endless appetite to know things.
Air elements should splurge on raw food. Fruits, grains, nuts, salads.... That's your domain.. The more raw it is, the better it suits you.

Water Element

You're the mom of the group, the nurturing, caring parental friend who everyone comes to cry to. There is no limit to how much you can listen to the other person. To some extent, you're intuitive.. Psychic... There have been times in your life that you've considered metaphysical world as a path of life. You worry too much and about everyone... Even to save your life, you just cannot manipulate someone because you're too emotional for that. You're fluid, sweet and nourishing. You're water.
Water elements make a great match for fire and air elements. It is the earth elements that they feel are too distant and unavailable emotionally and are bound to feel ignored and unloved by them.
Water elements should at least once in their life try a job related to the metaphysical. You might be in various walks of life but give it a try, you might like it.
Water elements should avoid sugar and fatty foods. As water tends to accumulate memories, love, thoughts, it accumulates fat too. Besides, you're already very sweet, what do you need sugar for?

Air Element

You're the detective of the group. You know everything, even if you don't talk to everyone. It's in your nature to know. I'm not saying you gossip, but every news reaches you somehow. You're curious about everything big and small. You love to talk... If someone could just pay you to talk all the time, you'd be richer than Bezos today. You have theories about everything and everyone, and most of the time, they're right. You're the one who always says I told you so. You're warm, you're intelligent, you're bubbly. You're air.
Air elements make the best match for water elements. You love to talk, they love to listen. Avoid fire elements as they might sometimes feel dominated by you. Not your fault, it's just hard for them to be the centre of attraction with you around.
Air elements should try their hand at social media management, public relations, social work, law and research. You have excellent communication and an endless appetite to know things.
Air elements should splurge on raw food. Fruits, grains, nuts, salads.... That's your domain.. The more raw it is, the better it suits you.

Earth Element

You're the one everyone turns to when life gets messy. You're solid, dependable, and have your sh*t together—even when you secretly don’t. You give the best advice, mostly because you're actually listening when people talk. You're the planner of the group, the one with backup snacks, a budget spreadsheet, and probably an emergency contact list for everyone. You're grounded, graceful, and got that “calm in the storm” energy. You're earth.

You're not about the drama. You like things that make sense. You crave stability—not because you're boring, but because you know peace is underrated. You work hard, and you don’t shout about it. But people notice. You’re the quiet achiever who builds empires in silence. Loyalty is everything to you, and your presence feels like a warm cup of chai on a cold day.

Earth elements match best with water signs—they bring the emotion, you bring the structure. Together, you build beautiful things. Air signs might tire you out with their inconsistency, and fire signs? Fun, but exhausting. Proceed with caution.

You thrive in fields that require patience, precision, and real results—architecture, agriculture, finance, design, therapy, anything where something real gets created. You’re not into fluff—you want impact.

Earth signs should splurge on hearty, grounding food—root vegetables, grains, stews, and anything slow-cooked. Your body loves warmth, comfort, and food that feels like home.

Ether Element

So where’s the fifth element? Why isn’t Ether—space, sky, whatever you call it—assigned to any zodiac sign? Simple. Because Ether isn’t part of the scene… it’s the one watching it all unfold. The zodiac signs are described as the body parts of Lord Vishnu, and if you think about it, Ether is what holds everything together. It’s the background, the silence between the sounds, the space where everything else happens.

Ether doesn’t belong to one sign—it connects all of them. Maybe that’s why, no matter what faith or belief we follow, we instinctively look up when we pray, think, or ask for help. It’s not about the stars. It’s about what holds them all. That’s Ether. Ether isn’t in the story—it’s the canvas the story is painted on. While fire burns, water flows, air moves, and earth grounds—Ether simply holds. It connects. It watches.

No one is “Ether dominant.” You can’t be it. You can only be within it.

Ether is why silence can feel louder than sound. Why the stars speak even when they’re quiet.

It's all in the Elements